The impact of the deaths of the last surviving elderly parent of 212 m
iddle-aged children was studied. Daughters expressed more emotional up
set, somatic response, and continuing tie with the deceased parent tha
n sons; sons reported more acceptance of the death than daughters. The
child's gender was not associated with a sense of personal finitude o
r control of grief. When we control in regressions for characteristics
of the parent, the child, and the quality of their relationship, chil
d's gender continued to add significantly to the bereavement outcomes
above.