In recent family literature, men are often characterized as deadbeat d
ads, with a focus on their lack of involvement, mainly financial but p
hysical and emotional as well. At the same time, there has been little
attention paid to how men feel about being parents. This paper examin
es men's attitudes toward parenthood using data from the National Surv
ey of Families and Households. The results indicate (1) married men ar
e significantly less likely than unmarried men to think that the stres
s of raising children, the ability to purchase goods, career time, lei
sure time, and old age security are important considerations in decidi
ng whether or not to have a child; (2) men with higher education are m
ore likely than less educated men to consider time for career and time
for leisure and social activities important in making fertility decis
ions but are less likely to consider having someone to love important;
and (3) black and Hispanic men are more likely to place importance on
old age security than non-Hispanic white men.