We theoretically analyze the behavior of membranes presenting a nemati
c susceptibility, induced by the presence of anisotropic phospholipids
having a quadrupolar nematic symmetry. This kind of anisotropic phosp
holipids is either naturally found in some biological membranes, or ca
n be chemically tailored by linking pairs of single surfactants at the
level of their polar heads, giving rise to so-called ''gemini'' surfa
ctants. We predict that such membranes can acquire a non-zero paranema
tic order induced by the membrane curvature, which in turn produces cu
rvature instabilities. We call the resulting paranematic order para-an
tinematic, since it is opposite on opposite sides of the membrane. We
find phase transitions toward sponges (L-3), tubules, or modulated ''e
gg-carton'' phases.