We address the problem of the convergence to equilibrium of a general
class of point processes, containing, in particular, the nonlinear mut
ually exciting point processes, an extension of the linear Hawkes proc
esses, and give general conditions guaranteeing the existence of a sta
tionary version and the convergence to equilibrium of a nonstationary
version, both in distribution and in variation. We also give a new pro
of of a result of Kerstan concerning point processes with bounded inte
nsity and general nonlinear dynamics satisfying a Lipschitz condition.