Children are the recognized patients when admitted to hospital but the
ir parents can also present demands for care by nurses, Involvement in
care can be stressful for parents, particularly when children are req
uired to undergo unpleasant procedures. Parents turn to their families
for support in the first instance but some also look for care from nu
rses. Consequently parents can present a need for care of themselves t
o nurses whose primary patients are children, In this paper the experi
ences of a group of parents who became co-clients of nurses are consid
ered along with the views of nurses working on the same ward. The disc
ussion arises out of a larger study of the experiences of the parents
of children admitted to a surgical ward in a children's hospital. The
principal purpose of the study was to examine parents' and nurses' per
ceptions of their participation in the care of hospitalized children.
The work of caring for parents is found to be ad hoc and unpredictable
. The implications of the study for practice and policy are considered
.