For battered women who participate in social and police services desig
ned to help them, a dominant cultural script has emerged that directs
them to get away and stay away from their abusers. Using in-depth inte
rview and participant-observation data, the author examines the strate
gies battered women employ to resist that script. Staying with an abus
er, ignoring and lifting restraining orders, and refusing to call and
cooperate with police were active, reasoned choices battered women mad
e in response to an array of conditions including fear of and harassme
nt by abuser, complex everyday-life contingencies, and emotional attac
hment to abuser. The battered women tried to use the dominant cultural
script to get away and stay away, but found that the script was overl
y narrow and there was a tack of coordinated institutional support for
their decisions. This study extends sociological perspectives on batt
ered women by viewing them as a culture of resistance and focusing on
strategies they employ to assert control and make choices relevant to
their needs and interests.