Sociological literature on gender, work, and families has focused on b
oth conflict and benefits created by combining the spouse, parent, and
paid worker roles, whereas research by family gerontologists has focu
sed on stress experienced by those who provide care to frail elderly p
arents as well as other roles associated with being in the ''middle ge
neration.'' We examine consequences of adding middle generation roles
to other major life roles during the middle years. We find that giving
help to parents increases men's distress, while giving help to adult
children enhances women's well-being. When help to biological parents
is examined separately, it is found to increase both men's and women's
distress. Women are unaffected by the multiplicity of roles while, fo
r men, there is evidence of both role buffering and strain from confli
cting demands. me discuss further directions for research on consequen
ces of roles for well-being.