In this study of the phenomenon of the postpartum period grounded theo
ry methodology was used to investigate the experiences of first-time m
others during the first three months following their deliveries. The s
ample consisted of 12 primipara women and 3 multipara women. The data
were generated by using unstructured interviews and field notes. Each
woman was interviewed twice, the first time between 2 and 3 weeks post
partum, and the second time between 10 and 12 weeks postpartum The fin
al data for analysis consisted of: data generated through interviews,
field notes, and the narratives of four mothers found in the non-ficti
on literature. Constant comparative analysis resulted in the generatio
n of four categories and corresponding subcategories. These were: (1)
Giving of Self; (2) Redefining Self; (3) Redefining Relationships; and
(4) Redefining Professional Goals. The categories were not mutually e
xclusive. Al the categories converged to provide support for the core
variable 'Dialectic in Becoming a Mother'. The dialectic perspective d
emonstrated that, in becoming mothers, the women experienced transitio
n, contradictions, tensions and transformations. A theoretical model w
as developed to show relationships among these major concepts. The fin
dings of this study will be useful in effecting change in the provisio
n of care to postpartum women and their families.