This paper examines the ethical aims of family therapy and its relatio
nship to the ideals of contemporary culture. Although family therapy h
as defined itself in part by rejecting an individualistic view of pers
ons, it appears to have adopted a normative ideal for families that is
tightly bound up with modern individualism. The modern nuclear family
is a crucial support for individual autonomy in contemporary society
through its provision of a private, emotionally intimate environment.
By accepting this model of the family, family therapists are in the aw
kward position of indirectly supporting modern individualism and there
by perpetuating a view of individuals and families that contributes to
the difficulties we seek to ameliorate.