N. Bolger et al., CLOSE RELATIONSHIPS AND ADJUSTMENT TO A LIFE CRISIS - THE CASE OF BREAST-CANCER, Journal of personality and social psychology, 70(2), 1996, pp. 283-294
When life crises occur, significant others are thought to help allevia
te distress and resolve practical problems. Yet life crises may overwh
elm significant others, eroding their ability to provide effective sup
port. The accuracy of these contrasting accounts of relationship funct
ioning was evaluated in a study of 102 breast cancer patients and thei
r significant others, interviewed at 4 and 10 months after diagnosis.
Results largely confirmed the negative account of relationship functio
ning. Although significant others provided support in response to pati
ents' physical impairment, they withdrew support in response to patien
ts' emotional distress. Moreover, support from significant others did
not alleviate patients' distress or promote physical recovery. These r
esults reveal limits to the effectiveness of close relationships in ti
mes of severe stress.