The study explored reasons why some bereaved parents participate in a
self-help/support group while others do not. Data about forty-three su
pport group participants and forty-two nonparticipants and their decea
sed children were obtained through questionnaires and telephone interv
iews. Over 76 percent of nonparticipants were found to have lost their
child after a period of anticipatory grief while 80 percent of partic
ipants lost their child suddenly or without adequate forewarning. Havi
ng adequate support in their immediate environment was the reason stat
ed by most for not joining a group. The majority of group participants
mentioned that they needed a place to share grief with other bereaved
parents even though their family and friends were supportive. It appe
ars that bereaved parents are more likely to join a support group when
they experience a particularly traumatic loss and do not find others
who have suffered a similar loss in their usual social network.