Dating advertisements are the textual products of a discourse of commo
dification and marketization. They are certainly a prime site for witn
essing the textual construction of self- and other-identities in the s
ervice of developing new relationships. Furthermore, dose examination
of a corpus of written and spoken dating advertisements reveals advert
isers' resources for resisting full-blown self-commodification. Indivi
duals can, to some extent, extricate themselves from the constraints o
f the media in which they operate. The analyses suggest that the moral
case against 'pernicious commodification', as a recurrent contemporar
y discursive formation and as a threat to late-modern self-identities
and relationships, is overstated.