Most work on the genetics of relative weight has not considered the ro
le of assortative mating, i.e., mate selection based on similarity bet
ween mates. We investigated the extent to which engaged men and women
in an archival longitudinal database were similar to each other in rel
ative body weight prior to marriage and cohabitation. After controllin
g for age, a small but statistically significant mate correlation was
found for relative weight (r = .13, p = .023), indicating some assorta
tive mating. Furthermore, we examined whether mate similarity in relat
ive weight prior to marriage predicts survival of the marriage. No sig
nificant effects were found. In sum, these results are consistent with
those of other studies in suggesting that there is a small but signif
icant intermate correlation for relative weight. However, they are uni
que in showing that these results cannot be explained on the basis of
(a) cohabitation, (b) age similarity, or (c) selective survival of mar
riages between couples more similar in relative weight. The implicatio
ns of these findings for heritability studies, linkage studies, and th
e estimation of shared environmental effects are discussed.