This article focuses on one of the most critical features of elementar
y school students' social lives: their peer friendship groups. Within
each grade, and separated by gender, a hierarchy of friendship groups
is stratified according to the dimension of status and popularity. Thi
s ranges from the popular clique at the top, to the wannabes who hang
around the popular people's periphery seeking access, to the individua
ls forming smaller middle-level friendship circles, to the social isol
ates at the bottom. Membership at each of these ranks carries with it
a distinct experience in terms of power and domination, intra-group st
ratification, type of leadership, and friendship relations, leading to
a further stratification by group into a hierarchy of identity. We co
nclude by examining the basis for preadolescents' identity formation,
augmenting previous models of identity and social position that rely e
xclusively on status with the addition of interactional and relational
factors. This structural-relational model bridges the structural and
processual symbolic interactionist models of identity, linking them at
a Simmelian level of analysis.