Little is known about how men and women conceptualize sexual desire. T
his descriptive study explored beliefs about the nature of sexual desi
re. Participants defined sexual desire in a free response format. The
results suggest that there is no single common understanding of sexual
desire. In particular, although men and women conceptualize the state
of sexual desire in a manner similar to researchers and theorists (i.
e., as a subjective psychological experience rather than as a physiolo
gical or behavioral sexual event), sexual desire represents a more rom
antic, interpersonal experience for women than for men. Significantly
more women than men believed that love and emotional intimacy are impo
rtant goals of sexual desire, and fewer women than men viewed sexual a
ctivity as a goal of sexual desire.