The defence of abortion from individualistic rights-based arguments un
derstates social context and ostracises communities that draw on the l
anguage of collective responsibilities. In trying to understand restri
ctive abortion legislation in Ireland, I argue for a more constructive
, less oppositional debate. As the basis for dialogue, I focus on the
common ground of women's experiences, their changing social roles and
general commitment to nurture others. The defence of abortion from res
ponsibility-based arguments reconceptualises abortion from an individu
al woman's private dilemma, to a social conflict of care that requires
culturally sensitive and morally responsible choices.