The literature on doctor-nurse relations still mostly presumes that th
e doctor is male and the nurse female. While there has been some inter
est in male nurses, especially gay ones, very little has been said abo
ut the relationship between nurses and women doctors. This paper draws
on life history interviews with women doctors, and focus groups of nu
rses to explore the relationship. Nurses of both sexes were more posit
ive about women doctors than vice versa but the two versions mesh: nur
ses prefer working with women doctors because the latter are less dema
nding and have a more consultative style; the doctors, however, resent
what they see as the compromises they have to mal;e. Some of the tens
ions between female doctors and, in particular, female nurses, derive
from the deliberate construction of 'modern' medical and nursing ident
ities as normatively masculine and feminine and the impossibility for
women doctors of playing the 'doctor-nurse game'. Woman doctors wee ex
pected be a blend of nurse and doctor and hence faced problems differe
ntiating themselves from nurses; currently nurses are facing similar e
xpectations and are disturbed to find themselves portrayed as failed d
octors. Both groups have constituted themselves in relation to shiftin
g meanings of gender and class which are linked in complex and subtle
ways. While there are tensions, there are also indications that a high
proportion of the women doctors have negotiated, or been forced to ne
gotiate, more egalitarian working relationships with nurses than have
their male colleagues.