The well-established finding that siblings growing up in the same fami
ly turn out to be very different from one another has puzzled psycholo
gists and behavior geneticists alike. In this theoretical note we desc
ribe the possible ontogeny and phylogeny of a sibling differentiation
mechanism. We suggest that sibling competition for parental investment
results in sibling differentiation on a number of characteristics, pr
oducing different developmental trajectories within families. Variatio
ns in developmental trajectories within families may have had fitness
advantages in ancestral environments because (a) sibling competition f
or extrafamilial resources would be reduced and (b) these variations w
ould be suited to environments containing a variety of niches or to ch
anging environments. Predictions derived from this model and an exampl
e of an application to attachment theory are presented.