Self-gravitating stellar disks with random motion support both exponen
tially growing and, in some cases, purely oscillatory axisymmetric ben
ding modes, unlike their cold disk counterparts. A razor-thin disk wit
h even a very small degree of random motion in the plane is both unsta
ble and possesses a discrete spectrum of neutral modes, irrespective o
f the sharpness of the edge. Random motion normal to the disk plane is
stabilizing but at the same time allows bending waves to couple to th
e internal vibrations of the particles, which causes the formerly neut
ral modes to decay through Landau damping. Focusing first on instabili
ties, I here determine the degree of random motion normal to the plane
needed to suppress global, axisymmetric, bending instabilities in a f
amily of self-gravitating disks. As found previously, bending instabil
ities are suppressed only when the thickness exceeds that expected fro
m a naive local criterion when the degree of pressure support within t
he disk plane is comparable to, or exceeds, the support from rotation.
Nevertheless, a modest disk thickness would seem to be adequate for t
he bending stability of most disk galaxies, except perhaps near their
centers. The discretization of the neutral spectrum in a zero-thicknes
s disk is due to the existence of a turning point for bending waves in
a warm disk, which is absent when the disk is cold. When the disk is
given a finite thickness, the discrete neutral modes generally become
strongly damped through wave-particle interactions. It is surprising t
herefore that I find some simulations of warm, stable disks can suppor
t (quasi-)neutral, large-scale, bending modes that decay very slowly,
if at all.