In this article, the author illuminates in a first person narrative th
e emotional involvement of coping from day to day with the stigma and
sensory limitation of hearing impairment. By describing a personal exp
erience of a stigma, the work moves beyond Goffman's perspective of fe
eling rules and impression management to convey how people actually fe
el in social situations. Although Goffman was able to identify the und
erlying motives behind impression management, he was not able to captu
re the experience of stigma as an insider. The purpose here is to show
the social process of living with a stigma, and to encourage others t
o tell their stories and contribute to a better understanding of lived
experience.