Litigants turn to the matrimonial bar to obtain redress for the diffic
ulties the domestic partnership hath wrought. Clients involved in divo
rce litigation complain bitterly of the process which wreaks havoc upo
n their lives, emotions and pocketbooks. In response to this, and to t
he need to remove the courts from the role of psychologist and sociolo
gist, there has been a gathering impetus in many states to create alte
rnative methods for the resolution of matrimonial disputes. The author
s highlight the adaptation and replication of mediation techniques for
use in resolving such conflicts, while illustrating how the process i
s historically rooted in labor relations matters.