The task of therapy in severely personality disordered patients is to
transfer all the destructive feelings, which are usually channelled in
to deliberate self-harm, into the therapeutic relationship, so that th
ey can be contained, understood and mastered. However, it can be very
difficult to create a therapeutic relationship where the patient feels
secure enough to access horrors from the past, when these very horror
s carry so much negative affect that they threaten to destroy the rela
tionship. This paper discusses the problems in maintaining a therapeut
ic alliance with such patients using anecdotes from the author's work
in a therapeutic community. The relevance of psychoanalytical concepts
such as envy, hostile dependency, the negative therapeutic reaction,
psychopathic transference, idealization and splitting are explained. A
case is made for detailed psychodynamic formulations, as an aid to ri
sk management with a particular focus on the interpersonal triggers of
suicidal behaviour. The author believes that clinical practice inform
ed by knowledge of attachment theory may enable clinicians to pre-empt
life-threatening crises during therapy.