In this contribution to the Festschrift devoted to Heinz von Foerster,
choices are shown to be constitutive in processes of human self-organ
ization. This is pursued along three dimensions that are seen as inher
ently connected: the epistemological dimension of reality construction
; the communal dimension of dialogical closure; and the ethical dimens
ion of autonomy and dialogical responsibility. In order to exemplify h
is style of working as a mentor, Heinz von Foerster is portrayed in in
teraction, drawing largely on the author's experience. As one concrete
case of a far-reaching general approach, the paper brings out the imp
lications of his way of thinking for cooperative software design. This
leads to an epistemological view of the design process, to guidelines
for communal work focussing on dialogue and self-organization, and to
the ethics of systems design, which means taking responsibility for t
he choices made in design and the choice scopes associated with comput
er-based systems.