The voluminous journal of Marc-Marie de Bombelles (1744-1822) provides
abundant documentation of the cultivation of affective relations with
in the family as well as the connections between private and public af
fairs in the last years of the Ancien Regime. The marquis represented
himself as a devoted son, brother husband and father who sought and fo
und happiness en famille. He renounced certain attitudes and conduct t
raditionally associated with the aristocracy and regretted the fact th
at the king and queen did not set a good example for their subjects. H
e described Louis XVI as a good father who could not rule his feelings
, his wife, or his realm; and Marie-Antoinette as a bad mother who neg
lected her children and abused her prerogatives. Bombelles expected th
e royal family, like his own family, to embody values that historians
have commonly identified with the bourgeoisie.