Theoretical and empirical models of interpersonal conflict focus prima
rily on engagement and avoidance behaviors between the conflict partie
s. Recent studies of workplace conflicts, however, suggest that encoun
ters with third parties (e.g., co-workers, friends, family) are common
responses to perceived incompatibility of interests. This paper intro
duces a model for understanding conflict-induced sensemaking behaviors
, grounded in the conflict and social cognition literatures. Three com
ponents of sensemaking are proposed-emotional, cognitive, and behavior
al. These elements are influenced by the focus of the party initiating
sensemaking, as we illustrate through case-history scenarios.