In a study of troublesome relationships, 343 university students and e
mployees were surveyed. Issues addressed were the frequency, nature an
d precursors of negative relationship experiences. Over half of the re
spondents (55.7%) reported a very troublesome relationship within the
previous 5 years. These were most often close relationships that deter
iorated markedly as a result of the experience. Negative relationship
involvement was related to insecure styles of attachment. Those with a
n insecure-avoidant attachment style were also more prone to use alcoh
ol or drugs to cope with the troubled relationship and they were more
likely to end the relationship. The results support the view that a hi
story of poor attachment relations may compromise later relationships.
However, the attachment effects were modest and the pervasiveness of
troublesome relationship encounters suggests that these are an ubiquit
ous part of the human experience.