The inelastic quasiparticle lifetime due to the electron-electron inte
raction (out-scattering time in the kinetic equation formalism) is cal
culated for finite metallic diffusive systems (quantum dots) in the wh
ole range of parameters. Both cases of ''continuous'' (the inelastic l
evel broadening much exceeds the mean level spacing) and ''discrete''
spectrum are analyzed. In particular, the crossover between one- and z
ero-dimensional regimes is studied in detail. In the case of a continu
ous spectrum the out-scattering time is shown to be the same as the in
elastic time entering expressions for universal conductance fluctuatio
ns and persistent currents. It is also found to be shorter than the ph
ase-breaking time in two- and one-dimensional systems, while in zero-d
imensional systems these two times coincide. In the case of a discrete
spectrum for small enough systems a universal behavior of the scatter
ing time is obtained. For temperatures below the mean level spacing th
e out-scattering rate is shown to be vanishingly small.