IF ITS NOT ON - HETEROSEXUALITY FOR HIV-POSITIVE WOMEN

While there is a small amount of literature which considers the impact of an HIV positive diagnosis on one's life very little of it has cons idered how HIV affects the Lives of women or how living with HIV affec ts women's sexuality and relationships. Based on in-depth interviews w ith 24 women living with HIV/AIDS, utilising a grounded theory approac h, this paper begins to consider how living with HIV impacts on women' s sexuality and relationships. The impact of messages that HIV positiv e women receive and the dominant discourses around HIV/AIDS and 'safe sex' and heterosexuality present contradictions for women. As a result , various tensions arise for positive women and their partners in tryi ng to negotiate sex, safe sex, and condom use in particular. These ten sions work themselves out in ways which depend in part upon the seroco ncordance/discordance of the partner(s) and the nature of the relation ship, that is, casual or on-going. Findings reveal that positive women are in need of support and counselling which affirms their identity a s sexual beings, which upholds the expectation that HIV positive women will and can have a rulfilling sex life, and which recognises that se x can be a source of pleasure for women as well as for their male part ners.