This exploratory study of adult female incest survivors examined their
attitudes and practices regarding caregiving for their aging parents.
In-depth interviews with 14 women revealed considerable conflict betw
een internalized societal expectations about eldercare and the recover
y process from childhood incest. The analysis identified five ''caregi
ving avoidance'' strategies the women used to balance the opposing nee
ds of their parents and their own recovery process: Determined Avoidan
ce; Remote Caregiving; Restrained Support; No Touch Caregiving; and Di
sengaged Caregiving. The data suggest that viewing the family system f
rom a historical perspective allows professionals to better understand
daughters' reluctance to provide eldercare.