Thirty healthy, middle-class mothers were interviewed during their pos
tpartum hospital stay to identify major influences on mothers' respons
es to their infants. Sullivan's theorem of tenderness served as a guid
e for exploring maternal responsiveness. Three major categories, infan
t tenderness needs, maternal perception, and maternal needs, and their
related properties, were described. Support persons were viewed as ve
ry important. Mothers also believed that some infant needs were more i
mportant than others. Finally, mothers felt that they were constantly
faced with priorities, and that the emotional state of the mother and
infant often influenced their interaction.