For older women there is a shortage of single male partners in the sam
e age group. This study investigates the extent of relevant alternativ
e sexual options. 91 German women aged 50 to 91 years (birth cohorts:
1895-1936) were interviewed about their attitudes to and experiences w
ith unconventional sexual relationships (cumulative incidence figures
are given in parentheses): At the time of interview 4% (18%) of the in
terviewees had a relationship with a man younger than themselves, and
1% (4%) had a lesbian relationship. Of those living as singles, 8% wer
e having an affair with a married man (21% had one while living as a s
ingle). Although relationships with married men occurred most often, a
ttitudes towards relationships with married men were mostly negative.
Feelings about relationships with younger men and other women were amb
ivalent.