The feminist critique that codependency and loss of self are related t
o power was tested in a sample of 122 college women and men in committ
ed relationships. Participants completed two codependency measures, a
loss of self scale, acid three indices of power: perceived power, use
of specific influence strategies, and decision making. Among both wome
n and men, codependency and loss of self were positively related to th
e use of indirect strategies and negatively related to perceived power
, and loss of self was negatively related to use of the direct strateg
ies. Among women alone, codependency was also negatively related to us
e of direct strategies and loss of self negatively related to decision
making. These correlational data provide support for a feminist criti
que of codependency as related to power; however, gender similarities
suggest that the relations between power, loss of self, and codependen
cy hold for college men as well as college women.