This paper reports on experimental results about the electron-phonon c
oupling in few nm sized CdSe quantum dots (QDs) embedded in a glass ma
trix. We compare results from non-degenerate four-wave mixing (NDFWM)
with those from time resolved photoluminescence (PL). In NDFWM, we rep
ort for the first time on a distinct enhancement of \chi((3))\(2) for
beam detunings near the bulk LO-phonon energy. We extend Yajima's theo
ry on NDFWM(1)) to the case of an inhomogeneously broadened multi phon
on system including Coherent Raman Scattering processes. The theory gi
ves reasonable agreement with the data and enables us to deduce the Hu
ang-Rhys parameter and the relevant relaxation times from the experime
nt. In PL, the corresponding Franck-Condon progression of the electron
-hole (e-h) pair groundstate is clearly resolved. We compare the coupl
ing constants and the homogeneous line widths deduced from both experi
ments and demonstrate the effect of photostructural changes upon the r
elaxation times.