The bereaved often have paranormal experiences: they feel the presence
of or see the dead. This article examines the relevance to bereavemen
t of the experiences and of the belief in a life after death. Many pro
fessional counselors dismiss the experiences as hallucinatory and the
belief as a mark of superstition. This article, however, presents surv
eys of paranormal experiences and data from physical research that can
be used to validate the experiences and belief and to help the bereav
ed restructure their lives.