A study of children's help-seeking behaviour with respect to bullying
and parental arguing is reported. A number of specific hypotheses and
open-ended questions were investigated with boys and girls aged 8-17 y
ears. Female helpers were preferred overall, though a relationship exi
sted between the child's and helper's gender. Parents, friends, and te
achers were all chosen, and parent and peer helpers were seen as compl
ementary rather than competitive sources of help. Reasons for choosing
helpers were notably varied, but largely related to perceived qualiti
es of the helper rather than the child's own needs. Children depicted
helping as an active response on the part of the helper. These finding
s are discussed and implications for practice noted.