The condom is widely recommended as the principal method for preventin
g HIV transmission, but such advice obviously does not apply to women
who are seeking to become pregnant. In this sense, 'safer sex' is inco
mpatible with reproduction. Existing research into HIV transmission ha
s examined the choices made by those wishing to conceive within a sexu
al relationship; such research shows that HIV is not a highly signific
ant factor in their decision-making processes. This study aims to exte
nd the debate by exploring the decision-making processes of women seek
ing to become pregnant with donated sperm. In particular, we focus on
women outside the fertility clinic system who do not have access to sp
erm screened for HIV to see whether HIV is a significant factor in the
se women's decisions. The study involved in-depth interviews with 20 w
omen (14 lesbians, one bisexual and five heterosexuals) recruited thro
ugh informal networking and snowball sampling. HIV was a salient conce
rn for our sample, largely because of their contacts with gay men, but
nonetheless most of these women took some risks. On the one hand, the
conscious deliberations necessary to conceive through self-inseminati
on facilitated risk reduction, as did factors such as 'stranger-danger
'. On the other hand, factors such as the scarcity of suitable sperm d
onors and the women's own feelings of gratitude and loyalty to their d
onors mitigated against their requesting that their donor take an HIV
test. This study highlights the need to provide information for women
seeking self-insemination, and to remove restrictions on access to fer
tility clinics, in order to reduce their risk of HIV infection and sub
sequent vertical transmission.