Parent leaders were asked to discuss their experiences in being mentor
ed and in mentoring others. Mentoring is viewed as a special relations
hip that develops between two individuals, where the mentor recognizes
a uniqueness or potential in the less experienced person and takes a
special interest in the growth of that person. Likewise, the protege a
dmires or values the experience, knowledge, skill, or behavior of the
mentor and wishes to emulate this. Seven themes are identified relativ
e to effective mentoring of parents of children with disabilities. Men
tors model desirable qualities or behaviors; they teach and share know
ledge; they provide guidance or advice; they actively listen to though
ts and feelings; they provide support and encouragement; they promote
proteges to others; and mentors make a special commitment of time, ene
rgy, and interest in the protege's growth. Specific mentoring activiti
es are provided. Barriers to mentoring are also identified.