PATTERNS OF CONFLICT AND ANGER IN WOMEN 60 YEARS OLD OR OLDER - AN INTERPRETIVE STUDY

This study explored the experience and expressions of conflict/anger i n nine women between the ages of 62 and 79 years. Three themes related to events of conflict were described: (1) avoidance (''just forget it ''); (2) covert retaliation (''It would tickle me... I know a way to g et back''); and (3) no acknowledgement. In addition, one feeling theme emerged and was characterized by feelings of isolation and estrangeme nt. The women appeared to go to great lengths to avoid conflict rather than risk disruption of personal relationships. Noteworthy were the l asting and vivid memories of the interactions involving conflict and t he intensity of the emotions described.