Three experiments were conducted to examine whether people spontaneous
ly remember the wording used to convey politeness. In all experiments,
subjects heard statements varying in politeness that had been made by
either a high-status (e.g., a professor) or equal-status (e.g., anoth
er student) speaker. Subjects' incidental memory for these statements
was then tested with either a recognition (Experiments 1 and 3) or a r
ecall (Experiment 2) procedure. As expected, there was evidence of sig
nificant memory for wording that conveyed politeness, and subjects wer
e more likely to remember forms that were incongruous with the speaker
's status. There was also some evidence that subjects encoded the poli
teness of a remark even when they were unable to recall the specific r
emark. The results demonstrate the role of the interpersonal dimension
in the processing of language in context.