A STRUGGLE FOR LANGUAGE - PATTERNS OF SELF-DISCLOSURE IN LESBIAN COUPLES

This qualitative study explores the complexity of language choices mad e by lesbian couples concerning self-disclosure. Transcripts of two fo cus groups were analyzed using the constant comparative method. A dist inction is drawn between verbal and behavioral language. Language conc erning lesbian identity is assessed for its affirming or negating prop erties. The concepts of parallel process of coming out, coming out as an ongoing process, and the paradox of self-preservation are also disc ussed. The findings challenge the association of verbal self-disclosur e as a hallmark of mental health for lesbians.