This paper sets out to examine the family therapist's relationship to
young children from a psychological perspective. Earlier contributions
to the literature regarding the involvement of children in family ses
sions are reviewed briefly. Aspects of attachment theory and Piaget's
theory of cognitive development are considered in terms of their impli
cations for family therapy. It is argued that family therapists should
be mindful of parents' responsibilities for meeting their children's
needs, particularly their need to experience predictability and to hav
e a coherent story about their lives. The importance of exploring the
effects of adult choices on the children is also emphasized.