Two studies compared judgments about aggressive components of jealous
reactions to the partner and to the rival, specifically, emotional (an
ger), cognitive (blame), and behavioral components. The first study ra
ndomly assigned 172 young women and men to two questionnaires on jealo
us reactions to mild (flirting) and serious (cheating) transgressions.
One questionnaire assessed standards for appropriate behavior and per
ceptions of how people usually react. The second questionnaire asked p
eople to report how they had reacted or, if not experienced with a sex
ual transgression, how they would react. The second study asked 113 pe
ople to imagine a situation in which they knew their partner had been
sexually unfaithful. There were three major findings that were interpr
eted in the context of courtship, a time when attention is focused on
the qualities of one's potential long-term partner. First, the jealous
individual's anger and blame were focused more on the partner than th
e rival. Second, mean anger and blame scores given the partner were we
ll matched. In contrast, the rival received more anger and blame than
deemed appropriate and considerably more anger than blame. These data
suggest that, in the context of courtship, a rival is not simply a com
petitor. Third, men were more inclined to think about aggressive actio
n against the rival but women were more emotionally and behaviorally r
eactive to the rival. The latter result implies that, in the context o
f competition for an established romantic partner, a rival is more sal
ient for women than for men. (C) 1993 Wiley-Liss, Inc.