Envy and admiration are analysed as alternative ways, in essential res
pects contrary to each other, to cope with situations of relative depr
ivation, when one becomes aware of having less of some good than some
other has. In terms of phantasies and with respect to the organisation
of the objects, envy is a paranoid-schizoid phenomenon, with hopeless
ness, persecutory phantasies, and object-splitting, whereas admiration
is in the depressive position, with hope, sympathy, and compartmental
isation of the admired trait out of its whole-object context. The clos
e relations between envy and admiration and narcissism are pointed out
, as are the differences between admiration and idealisation.