This study investigated maternal regulation of children's emotional be
havior and feelings. Mothers and their children ages 3, 5, 7, and 9 we
re interviewed concerning how the children would feel and act and how
the mothers would intervene in 12 prototypical situations that elicit
joy, anger, sadness, or fear. Mothers reported many regulatory strateg
ies for each type of emotion situation. Children's age was a significa
nt factor in regulation of angry and sad situations. Children's gender
influenced some maternal predictions concerning their children's resp
onses, but did not affect regulation of those responses. Agreement bet
ween mothers' predictions and children's self-reported responses was g
reater for older than younger children. Mothers were better at predict
ing their children's internal emotional experience than their emotiona
l behavior, with mothers typically expecting verbal responses, whereas
children more commonly reported nonverbal behavior. Children's negati
ve temperament influenced maternal anger regulation and overall accura
cy of mothers' predictions. Negative family expressivity influenced ma
ternal responses to happy and angry situations.