This paper presents the results of a qualitative study of coping stres
ses and strategies among a sample of parents with autistic children. T
he most serious stresses that parents faced included problems with the
lack of normal language, disruptive and violent behaviour, inappropri
ate eating and toileting and inappropriate sexual expression. Most par
ents used a variety of coping strategies, the most common of which inc
luded the use of service agencies, family support, social withdrawal,
religion, normalisation, individualism and activism. Although no singl
e coping strategy seemed to provide a definitively better outcome for
the parents' adjustment, the use of services and family support appear
ed to provide the most successful strategy of coping for a substantial
number of parents.