The professional therapist, like an actor, has a role. Inside, in betw
een, and beyond the role is a person without a clearly defined script
in the therapeutic interview. This paper looks at the interplay betwee
n the therapist's role and personhood. As with the professional actor,
the 'I' can be an effective consultant to the role. The 'I' or viscer
al responses of the therapist can increase the therapist's sensitivity
to the family members' emotional experience in the familial and thera
peutic relationships. This information can help the therapist be more
'response-able'-a position where the therapist is more flexible and 'a
ble to respond' to the emotional experience of the family interview. T
hus, by increasing therapeutic options, the interface between the 'I'
and the role can help the therapist be more professionally ethical and
'responsible'.