In addition to the physical disability, a spinal cord injury affects s
elf esteem and partner relationships. This study addressed partner exp
eriences in relation to sexual interest, behaviour and satisfaction. A
measure of satisfaction within relationships was also included. Forty
-nine partners of SCI persons completed a comprehensive survey includi
ng an 80 item questionnaire and a VAS quality-of-life measure. Partner
ages ranged from 18 to 79 years (median 34 years). Thirty-nine partne
rs were women and 10 partners were men. Significance testing of relati
onships included bivariate, partial and multiple correlation procedure
s. Sixty-one per cent of the partners appreciated the quality of their
sexual relationship and most partners (84%) considered their relation
ship overall to be satisfying. Half of the couples engaged in sex, wit
h or without intercourse, once a week or more. Fifty-five per cent of
the partners reported being content with the frequency of their sexual
interaction while one third would have wished more frequent activity.
Almost half of the partners (45%) considered their current sex life t
o be as good as or even better than their previous sex life. High gene
ral satisfaction with life, a varied repertoire of rewarding sexual ex
pressions, including intercourse and concern about the able bodied par
tner's sexual pleasure were positive predictors of an active and fulfi
lling sexual relationship. From the partner's perspective, feelings of
emotional closeness, mutual concerns and willingness to engage in a v
ariety of sexual activities seem to be more important for sexual fulfi
lment than the physiological aspects of sexuality.