Background. Much has been written about the care of the hopelessly ill
adult, but there is little guidance for pediatric health care profess
ionals in the management of children who are critically or terminally
ill. Methods. Through a 3-day meeting in Tarrytown,NY, attended by a g
roup of pediatricians and others directly involved in these issues, a
principled approach was developed for the treatment of, and health car
e decisionmaking for, children who are gravely ill. Results. The group
agreed that the needs and interests of the child must be the central
focus of any treatment plan and that the child should be involved to a
s great extent possible, consistent with developmental maturity, in th
e decision-making process. Quality of future life should be viewed as
being relevant in all decisions. Parents are believed to be the natura
l guardians of children and ought to have great latitude in making dec
isions for them. However, parental discretion is not absolute and prof
essionals must maintain an independent obligation to protect the child
's interests. Conclusions. Decision-making should be collaborative amo
ng patient, parents, and professionals. When conflict arises, consulta
tion and ethics committees may assist in resolution. When cure or rest
oration of function is no longer possible, or reasonable, promotion of
comfort becomes the primary goal of management. Optimal use of pain m
edication and compassionate concern for the physical, psychological, a
nd spiritual well-being of the child and family should be the primary
focus of the professionals caring for the dying child.