The dynamics of network structure are considered, here as a consequenc
e of individual choices with regard to relationships. We introduce the
individual- or object-oriented modelling approach to model social net
works. Object-oriented model building is based on acting so-called 'ob
jects', communicating with and reacting to each other. Individuals are
modelled as objects, each object with the possibility of having speci
fic characteristics and behavioral rules. In contrast to many existing
studies in the field of dynamic social networks, heterogeneity and de
pendence of dyads can easily be dealt with using this method. To clari
fy the new approach, we present a first simple model of the arising of
friendship networks. For this simplicity, the model presented here is
based solely on individuals' different needs for social contact, but
can easily be extended. We present results about the effect of the dis
tribution of individual needs on the network emergent structure.