GRIEF AND ABORTION - MIZUKO-KUYO, THE JAPANESE RITUAL RESOLUTION

This article explores the grief of Japanese parents after abortion and the ritual by which the grief is resolved. The ritual is Mizuko Kuyo. Mizuko means ''child of the water.'' Kuyo is a Buddhist offering. In a ritual drama played out by Jizo, the bodhisattva who suffers for oth ers, the parents' pain and the child's pain are connected, and in that connection the pain of each is resolved. The child is made part of th e community and does not become a spirit bringing harm to the family. The parents can fulfill their obligation to care for the child and tra nsform the sense of kumon, sickness unto death, into a realization Bud dhism's first noble truth, that all life is suffering. The subtext of the article is the search for an adequate method and language by which cross-cultural study of grief can move forward.